Being first gen means figuring a lot of it out as you go: FAFSA, office hours, what a syllabus is actually for, all of it, usually without anyone at home who’s done it before. 

These students did it anyway. We asked them what they’d tell someone walking the same road. Here’s what they said. 


Student Spotlights

Bryant Roberts 

Computer Science, Sophomore · Wichita, Kansas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“I came into college not knowing what to expect. At first, I had to figure out a lot of things on my own, but I learned that asking questions and getting involved can open many doors. Through research opportunities and campus organizations, I gained confidence and valuable experience. My advice is to never be afraid to ask for help, take advantage of opportunities, and remember that everyone's journey is different.”

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Bryant Roberts

Elias Aparicio-Gutierrez 

Mechanical Engineering, Freshman · Wichita, Kansas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“There is not a right way to do college, that is because everyone starts at different points in their life and with different circumstances.”

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Elias Aparicio-Gutierrez 

Sonnia Evbota-Momodu 

Social Media Student Assistant · Dallas, Texas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“Make sure to put yourself out there and make your talents known, not just to your professors but to your classmates and other fellows. This is important because you become more involved on campus - in clubs, campus activities, volunteering, research, and/or on-campus jobs. These experiences help round out the full college experience.”

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Sonnia Evbota-Momodu 

Sophia Laspisa 

Psychology, minoring in Spanish and Honors, Freshman · Wichita, Kansas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“Ask lots of questions, stay ahead, and apply for lots of scholarships! When I was a Junior/Senior in high school and even as a College Freshman, I bugged my counselors every week about something new. As someone who is the first to finish high school and attend college in my family, I didn’t know where to start. It’s easy to get lost in this big transition period from high school to college, or at any point in your life. The biggest thing that helps is asking for help from counselors, friends, family, even your coworkers! Because you are not alone, they have probably gone through or are going through the same thing as you right now. Doing this allows you to stay ahead and know exactly what to do. I wouldn’t be where I am today if I hadn’t asked the million questions that I did, and remember, no question is a stupid question!” 

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Sophia Laspisa 

Aileen Vasquez 

Health Science, Pre-Medical Laboratory Science (MLS), Junior · Garden City, Kansas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“Don't be afraid to say yes to new opportunities. You’re never going to feel qualified to be in the room until you step in.

You are more capable than you know, and your willingness to show up proves it.”

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Aileen Vasquez 

Marcus Richards 

Mechanical Engineering, Junior · Wichita, Kansas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“Get involved with organizations that will benefit and help with your career path, and also build connections and close friends that are taking the same route as you, and help each other along the way.

You can learn a lot from others!”

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Marcus Richards 

Iveth Parada Arevalo 

Health Management (Pre-PA track), Senior · Kansas City, Kansas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“Give yourself grace and remember that you belong in every room you work hard to enter. Being the first in your family to attend college can feel overwhelming, especially when you are navigating a system that your family may not have experience with. It is okay not to have everything figured out, and asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Remember that everyone's journey is different, so don't compare your progress to others. Be proud of how far you have come, and remind yourself that you are in a place you once prayed for.”

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Iveth Parada Arevalo

Tina Jamis 

Computer Engineering, Senior · Wichita, Kansas 

Advice for a fellow or future first generation college student

“Don’t be afraid to reach out for help in achieving your goals. There are so many resources on campus to help you achieve your goals. Get involved in a club or clubs. They are a great way to utilize the skills learned in class and a great way to make friends and gain experience working as a team.”

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Tina Jamis 

Are you first gen too? 

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